Alex my husband

 Well, I finally get around to writing a blog on Alex and I don't know what to write.  

I guess I will just Mr Spock it. In other words just talk about our times together as just the facts.  I'm  not sure I can pull that off or not.  At any rate, here goes.

So  today I would like to talk about my husband Alex.

First off he makes me laugh like no other.

Second of all as much as I want to choke him (and him choke me) I seriously can't imagine my life without him. 

We have carved out a pretty comfy life with him, me and our three cats Edga, Allen and Poe of whom we adore so much.  Those with cats are in the know.

We met three years ago in January 2019, met in person March 2019. by the end of 2019 we were committed to each other.  In August 2019 we got engaged and November 23rd, 2019 we got married through the church only (not through the government).  Log story short though, we had talked about getting married legally but when I brought it up Jan this year 2022 he replied that it bothered him that if it didn't work out he might lose half of what he worked so hard for.  That cut deeper than anything I have ever been told by anyone and I've been told some horrible things by people.  He doesn't know it but should he say let's get married legally I plan on saying no. I almost left him then. Actually it seems that if we are not legally married and he or I decide it's not going to work out then we can go our separate ways with probably a lot of emotional pain on both our parts but eventually we would both move on.

I have no plans on going anywhere right now.  I just try to take it day by day.  

Every relationship takes work but not to the point of pointlessness.

At any rate we have our ups and downs, highs and lows, plus he puts up with my stupidity better than anyone else I know 

So that's it for now, thanks for taking the time to read my blog, you are amazing.



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